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“It’s Complicated” – What??

 

Have you ever been in a situation where you don’t know what you are to the guy? It all seems that you’ve been on dates, you talk to each other on the phone or text, and no matter how you look at it people say you are like couple.  But your guy doesn’t seem to make it clear to you what kind of relationship you guys have.

 

What to do??

How long has it been? If it has only been only a month, you might wanna spend more time going on more dates.  Try not to rush in and clarify what it is.  If you ask for him to clarify too soon, it would freak the guy out.  As you may know, a lot of guys are afraid of commitment.  And when you rush in too fast too quickly it could scare him away.

 

If it has been longer, you may need to bring it up to him.  Not in a serious manner like “We need to talk” but in more of a casual manner like “I’ve been thinking, since we’ve been seeing each other for some time…” Be prepared for disappointment too though..

Guys may say “I’m not ready for commitment” or “I like us this way” etc…If those are the answers he’s given you, I suggest you to stop…Even though you hope for him to change his mind a long the way..it is not likely that he will..(I’m not saying that there’s no chance, but it’s very rare) And if you continue to go on dates with him, it’s only gonna get you emotionally attached to him (Women are more emotional than men after all) and you could eventually get hurt. You could be saying that “Right Ploy, easy for you  to say” But trust me, I have been in that situation before where I expected a guy to change his mind after getting to know me better.  But chances are, you are gonna get emotionally involved and start hoping for something that you know is not there to begin with.

 

It is better to cut it short than to drag it on just to hear the typical break up lines when you’re not even dating to begin with! Or it could be worse, the guy could magically disappear on you.  And when that happens what do you do? A woman instinct would tell you to keep calling, texting, asking around if anyone has seen the guy, facebook stalking, etc.  AND girls…there you find yourself a stalker. Even it is human nature to wonder…

 

What just happened?? What’s going on?? But a guy will automatically regards you as clingy, a stalker, crazy bit_h, or whatever between those lines.  Even when you didn’t intend to be or you are merely just asking for reason…trying to understand…but trust me, you are not gonna get any (at least real reasons why he acts the way he does)…

 

SO I suggest..it is better to cut it fast, when you find yourself in a “complicated” relationship with a guy who doesn’t want to commit or “Likes the relationship just the way you guys are.  If you ever get the chance to meet those guys…(or at least this is what I would tell myself back in the first day I met him or when he told me those things above) “Walk the hell away, girlfriend” Don’t waste your time with someone who’s not gonna treat you with full respect.  There are plenty of guys out there who will be more than willing to take you out like a man and commit to you the way you deserve.

 

Until Next Time, Take very good care of your self:)

 

Ploy

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Secret to FLAWLESS Skin FAQ

So I was asked quite a lot after I uploaded the video about how I recover my skin from my monstrous breakouts.  So here are the frequently asked questions and answers:

FAQ

During your breakout period, did you put any make-up on at all?

Answer: Yes, I did videos and I would be putting on make-up when I go out.  However, as soon as I get home I would remove my make-up thoroughly with oil-base make-up remover several times to make sure my it is really clean. (AND It is important to never fall asleep why having your makeup on)

How long did it take for your skin to recover?

Answer: It took me 2 months to recover from my breakouts, after I started doing what I told you in my videos:)

Do you have any acne cream suggestion?

Answer: When you buy acne cream make sure you look at the ingredients, it should contain Salicylic Acid in it, which heals acne without making the skin too dry and/or starts peeling.  One I would suggest to try would be “Drying Cream” from Mario Badescu (but be sure to only apply to specific spots, don’t use it on your whole face).  It could stings sometimes when you put it on because of the alcohol ingredient which helps cleanse bacteria.  This helped my acne to heal over night.

Did BB Cream break you out? I have heard people used this ______BB Cream and it caused breakouts

Answer: No, that’s not the cause of my breakouts because I have been using the same BB Cream when I had breakout until now and it doesn’t have any effect on my skin.  I don’t have any allergy to a specific brand of make-up.  Also I would suggest you look into brushes, and clean them regularly.

Do you experience any breakouts after that?

Answer: No, I don’t have breakouts anymore.  Although pimples could appear once in a while but nothing so serious comparing to what happened before.  After a day or two it would be gone and the red spots don’t appear visible longer than a week.

Would you suggest popping pimples?

Answer: I wouldn’t encourage it if you don’t know the correct ways, it would be better to go to the specialist and have them do it for you.  However, if you are going to pop them anyway, please use the right tools.  I would suggest using one of these (LINK) would be alright (but again, I don’t encourage it!)

Do you not recommend a visit to dermatologist?

Answer: I would recommend you to visit them if you are just going to have them pop pimples for you.  However, there are many dermatologists out there that would (possibly) suggest you to come back and use their services over and over again instead of sincerely helping you to recover so if you feel like your skin isn’t recovering even though you paid several visits to the dermatologist, I would suggest you to try my ways of recovering breakouts I talked about in my video because visiting dermatologist could cost you more than you should.

Ceptaphil is too expensive, do you have any alternatives?

Answer: Anything mild or for sensitive/baby skin would work fine^^

Do you use scrubs/peeling cream?

Answer: While I was having breakouts, I wouldn’t use anything else other than what I mentioned in my video.  However, after I recovered my skin I use homemade/DIY scrub because you KNOW EXACTLY what’s in the scrub you make.  I would make a video in the near future, to show you what I use.

Birth Control Pills:

Answer: Some birth control pills can heal acne in some women, the pills that help against acne have the hormones estrogen and progestin in them. However, most contraceptive pills have not been approved specifically for the treatment of acne. If you stop using those pills, you may be experiencing acne and breakouts due to hormonal changes.

Make-up Remover?

Answer: I use Etude house Eye&Lip Make up remover with clean cotton pads, I would use many cotton pads to make sure that there’s really no make-up on my face.  Then I would use DHL Cleaning oil to clean my face again before using cleanser.

Make-up base?

Answer: I personally think primer is important, not only that it will keep your make-up lasting longer, it prevents your skin to directly contact with the make-up itself (could be important while you are experiencing breakouts).  I would suggest looking into anything silicone based like Benefit’s Pore Professional.

Other minor tips, which don’t seem important but they are!:

Answer:

1. Try not to touch your face, your own fingers/fingernails can contain bacteria without you realizing it.  Try cleaning your hands often could help; however, it is surely less risky to avoid touching your face at all.

2. Hair: if you are at home it could be better if you keep them out of your face, I’m not saying that hair can contain bacteria as well, but do you notice that sometimes people you has bangs experience acne on their forehead? It could be the case right?

3. Clean your face regularly with water, if you are in the hot/humid country you could be sweating a lot.  It is always alright to clean your face with just water.

4.Clean your sheets/towel: Anything could be the cause of bacteria, but if you are experiencing breakouts, it is always good to keep your environment extra clean.  Wash your sheets and towel regularly because they too are what directly contact your skin.

Words of encouragement

Nothing is hopeless.  I have been experiencing super crazy breakouts before, I know how frustrating and stressful it could be but look at my skin now! I’m not saying that I have the most perfect skin in the world.  However, I just want to let you know that there’s ALWAYS a way out to whatever circumstances you may be in.  So please don’t ever give up! You can always talk to me and ask me for advice and I could give you my personal thoughts on it. Visit me on my facebook fanpage, and feel free to message me anytime! (FACEBOOK FANPAGE)

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Seductive/Sexy Date Make-up


Hi everyone, I was planning to do a beachy look but unfortunately it’s been raining everyday in Thailand, so it’s kind of hard to get the summer feeling anymore when it’s always dark out.  So that will have to be another time.  However, I got a request to do this beautiful look from one of my really nice subscriber, Nancy and I thought it’d be a good idea to combine her request with a make-up look to a date.  And at the end there’ll be dating tips for girls, so you guys can the idea of how to act and what to look out for.  So please keep on watching.

 

 
Products used:

Benefit-Pores Professional

Missha – Signature BB Cream (#23)
SE Smooth Erase Concealer
Revlon- Color Stay
Too faced – Shadow Insurance
Tony Moly – Crystal Mono Eye Shadow (#21)
Sugarpills – Taro, Lollipop, Acidberry
Urban Decay Naked Palette 2- Busted, Blackout
Tony Moly- Backstage Gel Liner
Kiss Me – Heroine Make Long&Curl Mascara
Dolly Wink Lashes
Benefit – Dandelion
Clinique Lip Gloss
Brushes: Sigma Beauty
Circle Lens: Lily Gray

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CC Cream Review! What is CC Cream Exactly?!

Have you tried CC Cream? What’s a CC Cream exactly?!

CC cream (Color Control cream) is an improved and refined blemish balm cream or Beauty Balm (BB Cream) created and developed in Korea.


The benefits of CC cream is said to include high SPF rating to ensure protection from damaging UVA and UVB rays. It also treats uneven skin tones more effectively and blends with skin tone better than BB creams which sometimes appear too light on certain skin tones. A lighter texture than that of BB cream also allows for smoother application with a less oily finish, while remaining extremely nourishing to the skin.

From Right–>Left:
Etude House CC Cream Glow–>Tony Moly Luminous Pure Aura CC Cream–>Tony Moly Intense Care LS CC Cream(Premium Snail)

From Right to Left: Etude–>Tony Moly (Aura CC Cream)–>Tony Moly (Premium Snail CC Cream)
The texture and color is almost skin care (cream) like when you put is on your skin.

The color starts to turn into something close to your skin tone as you blend them.

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BH Cosmetics Eyeshadow

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